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Contemplate & Motivate
Learnings, teachings and thoughtful reflections for anyone to reference during difficult times, stressful workdays and moments when manifesting your true self.
3 things my Catholic upbringing taught me— that I had to unlearn
What happens when the beliefs you were raised with no longer align with who you are? These are three deeply ingrained beliefs from my Catholic upbringing I had to unlearn to reclaim my identity, faith, and voice.
I’ve been called “too dramatic” my whole life
I was called “too dramatic” my whole life, but it was actually emotional invalidation. This is how being dismissed as a child shaped my confidence, voice, and relationships as an adult.
When a coworker won’t take no for an answer
After months of a coworker asking me out, I finally agreed to a date just to make the pressure stop. What happened next made me question why women are so often blamed when politeness is mistaken for permission.
Blood is thicker than water — But peace is priceless
When “family comes first” means silence, disrespect, and emotional harm, what do you do? It’s OK to want conversations when feelings are hurt. It’s OK to set boundaries when you’re not feeling respected. It’s OK to step back when it becomes too much.
If fed is best, why are new moms pressured to breastfeed?
As a new mom, I experienced the pressures of breastfeeding my baby. The stress and anxiety I went through was unexpected and heart wrenching. Why aren’t we more sympathetic to the needs of the mother so soon after giving birth? Where is the support and compassion?
The power of setting boundaries
Boundaries exist in all aspects of our lives. Setting clear, healthy boundaries with caregivers fosters harmony and mutual respect. And promotes emotional well-being for you and your children. So what can go wrong?
Why I started a podcast
When deciding whether or not I should take on something big or life changing, I rely on this guiding principle: if something presents itself to me three times, then I need to give it attention, whatever that entails.
This is how I concluded I should start a podcast.
5 Practical Tips for Creating a Gender-Neutral Playroom
Sparked my son’s fondness for playing dress up, I embarked on a journey of embracing gender-neutral play for my children. Through research and reflection, I’ve come to realize how impactful perpetuating gender stereotypes through play can be.
It was a journey to get here
Ready for some cliches? The destination is worth the journey. The sacrifice makes it all worth it. You have to go through pain and heartache to find true love… They exist for a reason, don’t they?
The dreaded drop-off
Dropping off children at daycare or school is like going into battle. Over the years my kids have cried, screamed, waved, hugged, kicked or grabbed any article of my clothing or hair to prevent from being left behind. I never know what to expect.
I allowed the bad behavior
While positive changes are occurring in pockets of corporate America to create safe and inclusive environments, there are many workplaces where bad behavior is accepted. Having been on the receiving end several times, my biggest disappointment is not having the courage to speak up.
Will I ever sleep again?
Being a full-time working mother of two has its challenges. I am currently in the thick of it and having trouble seeing the forrest for the trees. Will there ever be a time when sleep deprivation isn’t the norm?
Where is the love?
There is so much hate in the world today. It seems as though it’s the mission of others to tear us down at every turn. Where does it end? How can we spread love instead?
Finding my voice
Speaking up and sharing my thoughts and beliefs has been a challenge as I entered adulthood. How do I get back to the youthful bliss of speaking out for what is right?